So I suppose I do owe a bit of an explanation. As of yesterday Rhodry/Rhodri was banned a second time. This ban, because it was made 12 minutes before I was scheduled to start my evening shift was meant to be temporary until I got back and tried to do both damage control and a bit of catching up with Rhod.
"I'm not going to bother dealing with you. I'm going to continue how I am until there's an overwhelming amount of hate actually addressed to me by users. At which point I will examine my situation. A single opinion of me as a whole, does not matter much to me, and a few people who flipped out because of something so ridiculous, really doesn't mean anything to me." -Rhodry over Discord in private, June 23rd 2017.
To begin there are a few truths I will have to lay out. First, I do not have a fully neutral opinion of Rhod. This bias comes from yes, my upbringing and roughly a majority of my extended family. What does this mean? This means that I have an understanding of how Rhod thinks because I used to think similarly myself. I know how those gears turn. Is it bad? Yes. Did it influence my ban on Rhod? Yes. Am I willing to admit this fault? Absolutely.
Which goes to the next point. Was the ban unfair. I'm going to go ahead and state it was hastily done. An error on my part. If I wasn't working that day I would of probably given Rhod a talk rather than throw him in timeout. A mistake on my part.
Why the above quote? It's four months old sure but it really explains the issue I have with Rhod in a nutshell. He doesn't want to listen, there is no admittance that maybe, just maybe, if he did not post that comment on the picture we wouldn't be where we are today. Which is all I really wanted out of him. I would of unbanned him, without question, if he would accept that maybe if he didn't post on that picture (or shift the conversation to him) that the other user would not be upset. I'm tired of the fact that his posts cannot be taken literally or figuratively in which he fights and tries to win an unwinnable scenario. His story changes and I'm pretty sure those that don't like him (and vice versa) will change in his story to point out that their opinions are not valid and thus he will continue his unfortunate behavior. Disrespect to the site and staff after a banning doesn't reward points for good behavior either.
So I'm at a loss at this point. Sure, I screwed up but I feel like at this point the end does in fact justify the means. His behavior, selfishness and continual point that this is not the only site he has problems with (that he refuses to address) makes me feels like there are a few loose ends he needs to take care of. I'm not against unbanning him or letting him back but I really want someone who is interested in our community rather than one's own personal gains.