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How to I get myself ready for dating again?



Lives in: Ponyville, Equestria

Member since: Jun 08, 2019

So, i've been feeling lonely and i dont feel 100% with myself at all but i really am desperate for another's attention and i want to get into a relationship, but im not sure how. I want to be able to be happy with another, but i constantly feel uncomfortable. Any advice?




Lives in: Ponyville, Equestria

Member since: Jun 21, 2016

The following reflects my experience, this might not work for everyone.

I would recommend to look for a local hobby group (sports, crafts, interests, etc.) to get under people and lower the desperation. Also it’s a great way to meet new persons which are near you and have at least one common interest. I joined a local brony group (a monthly meetup at a restaurant).

It helps quite a bit, but isn’t a complete solution, at least in my opinion.
It lowers the desperation, but doesn‘t completely remove it ( as this conversation shows ).